"Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus..."
I have been struggling with the homestretch of summer vacation. Trips are done, football has started, but still no school. Since the days of summer are starting to add up, our tempers are starting to flare up. All 3 of the kids are cranky from time to time, which makes Mom cranky from time to time. I am trying to keep my parenting skills in check, but from time to time I just simply explode.
Today has been a cranky day for me. I feel like all Steve and I do is run the kids to and from their activities and try to keep them happy. Where is the gratitude and the realization of all we do for them? When do we, as parents, get to have any fun or do something that would make us happy? I'm not talking about jetting off to Hawaii, but maybe just a quiet moment where everyone is content. I know this is selfish and a wrong attitude, so don't think I need to be reminded. I realize that as I type it.
But I also know that this is more than just a much needed attitude adjustment. It is a heart problem that doesn't just lie within me, but within all of us. Philippians 2:5 says that our attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus. Ouch! That is what I want to convey to my children when they are behaving in a manner that is anything but. I think through my disciplining of my children, God is gently reminding me that He still has to discipline me too. My attitude is not always like that of His Son. It's more often like the attitude of my sons.
So, I will continue to press on and pray for the strength, calm, and attitude to be a better Mother. My children deserve at least that.
Until next time,
Attitude check!
A new season...AGAIN!
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